My mom was some kind of lamp genius. She could make a lamp out of anything, I kid you not. The lamp above was from a tea canister she picked up somewhere. She made many a lamp in her day, and as they say, they broke the mold when she passed away. Mom was unique in so many ways–a true character. Full of life, very creative, full of opinions, generous to a fault, often feisty, loyal to her family without reservation. I miss her so much. If Shirleyann loved you, you had an advocate who would fight 'til her last breath for you.
Mom's been gone for an unthinkable eight years. How could our family have continued to live and breathe and eat and see the dawn of another day without her light in it? Somehow we have managed to go on without our matriarch. Eight years. My gosh, how can that be? I dream of her often, quite vividly. She appears in my dreams, sometimes she speaks, usually she doesn't. She is merely present. For the first few years after she died, in my dreams, she would have left us for another family that she loved as much, or more than she did us. Otherwise, why would she leave? I know, how crazy. I would be so angry with her in my dreams. It was quite awful when I woke up. I would want to rail and cry, "Mom! Why did you leave us? How could you?" Over time, my dreams have changed, and I welcome her into them with delight. She is there, she contributes, she continues to support. I wake up now, and think "Thank you for visiting me Mom. I miss you and it is so nice to spend a little time with you, even in my dreams".
In my most recent dream, she visited all my sisters and I. We were all sitting in front of a roaring fireplace, with the sound of the ocean in the background. All of us were wearing Eileen West white nightgowns, including Mom. We sat by the fire, glasses of wine in hand and got all caught up on each others news. Just like old times. When I awoke, I was sad to say good bye to her, and to yet again realize that this would be another day without her in the future of my life on earth. Yet, I had to admit, she is with me all time, in the beautiful faces and characters of my dear sisters, daughter, and nieces. Mom lives on in all of us, and in my memories and my dreams.
I meant this to be a post on lamps, forgive me. Sometimes we just need to let digressions happen.
66 responses to “My Mom, the Lamp Genius”
My Mom has been gone 12 years. I really miss her all the time but especially when my grandsons are around. She would have taken such delight in them.
My Mom has been gone 12 years. I really miss her all the time but especially when my grandsons are around. She would have taken such delight in them.
It’s a beautiful post Nicole. I lost my own Mom over 30 years ago, when I was in my 20’s. It seems so long ago, and I still miss her. She never got to know her grandchildren, which makes me a little sad. But I know that one day we will all be together again 🙂 That is the blessed hope.
It’s a beautiful post Nicole. I lost my own Mom over 30 years ago, when I was in my 20’s. It seems so long ago, and I still miss her. She never got to know her grandchildren, which makes me a little sad. But I know that one day we will all be together again 🙂 That is the blessed hope.
What a beautiful post Nicole! She truly had a talent, her lamps are so beautiful. I too keep my mom close to me. Most of the things in I surrounded myself with in my sewing room are moms gifts to me or things that she cherished. She has been gone since I was just 26 (1976) but she is with me every moment of every day. Wonderful memories…Big hugs…
What a beautiful post Nicole! She truly had a talent, her lamps are so beautiful. I too keep my mom close to me. Most of the things in I surrounded myself with in my sewing room are moms gifts to me or things that she cherished. She has been gone since I was just 26 (1976) but she is with me every moment of every day. Wonderful memories…Big hugs…
I would have loved hearing about the lamps, but I think your digression was exceptional. Lamps can wait for another day, right?
I would have loved hearing about the lamps, but I think your digression was exceptional. Lamps can wait for another day, right?
What a wonderful tribute to your amazing mother. You are indeed blessed to see her in the women in your family and in your dreams.
I once read a quotation that goes…
“God gave us memories so we could have roses in winter and our mothers forever.”
My mother has been gone almost 8 years, too, and her photograph and loving presence grace my little sewing room. She loved COLORS!
Hugs!
What a wonderful tribute to your amazing mother. You are indeed blessed to see her in the women in your family and in your dreams.
I once read a quotation that goes…
“God gave us memories so we could have roses in winter and our mothers forever.”
My mother has been gone almost 8 years, too, and her photograph and loving presence grace my little sewing room. She loved COLORS!
Hugs!
I know exactly how your feel Nicole. My Mother has been gone for almost 12 years and I still have days when I want to pick up the phone and tell her about something or ask her a question. Our mothers may no longer be here on earth with us but they will be in our hearts forever.
I know exactly how your feel Nicole. My Mother has been gone for almost 12 years and I still have days when I want to pick up the phone and tell her about something or ask her a question. Our mothers may no longer be here on earth with us but they will be in our hearts forever.
Nicole, this is such a thoughtful post. Your mother’s lamps are a treasure you can have with you everyday as you create in your new studio. One day you will be able to tell Eva stories of her great grandmother while she looks at those lamps with you.
Nicole, this is such a thoughtful post. Your mother’s lamps are a treasure you can have with you everyday as you create in your new studio. One day you will be able to tell Eva stories of her great grandmother while she looks at those lamps with you.
Oh, Nicole, tht is a very touching tribute to your Mom. It brought tears to my eyes.
Oh, Nicole, tht is a very touching tribute to your Mom. It brought tears to my eyes.
Thank you for sharing such wonderful memories of your mother, and for such a lovely tribute to her. Love the lamps!
My mother-in-law passed away this past Friday, and so we’ve been spending time remembering and laughing about what a character she was. It seems funny that she’s no longer here, but I’d like to think she watching over us.
It’s sad when they’re gone, but we have joyful memories that will always be there to comfort us.
Thank you for sharing such wonderful memories of your mother, and for such a lovely tribute to her. Love the lamps!
My mother-in-law passed away this past Friday, and so we’ve been spending time remembering and laughing about what a character she was. It seems funny that she’s no longer here, but I’d like to think she watching over us.
It’s sad when they’re gone, but we have joyful memories that will always be there to comfort us.
My Mom was my best friend and there isn’t a day that I don’t miss her.
My Mom was my best friend and there isn’t a day that I don’t miss her.
this is just beautiful . . . thank you for sharing your Mom with all of us . . .
my Mom passed away 5 months ago and I miss her so so much . . . but I also keep her near by having her treasures around me . . .
this is just beautiful . . . thank you for sharing your Mom with all of us . . .
my Mom passed away 5 months ago and I miss her so so much . . . but I also keep her near by having her treasures around me . . .
I sit here with tears in my eyes as my thoughts are the same as yours. When one is close to their Mom, you can never forget them. I dream about mine too, and Dad. It is nice to know that there are special people out there who shower us with love we never forget. We need to hear more of this.
I sit here with tears in my eyes as my thoughts are the same as yours. When one is close to their Mom, you can never forget them. I dream about mine too, and Dad. It is nice to know that there are special people out there who shower us with love we never forget. We need to hear more of this.
That was a beautiful digression and such wonderful memories of your mother….. our dreams can be so comforting at times. Hugs to you and all the wonderful women in your family as you honor and reflect your mother with all of your varied talents and personalities.
That was a beautiful digression and such wonderful memories of your mother….. our dreams can be so comforting at times. Hugs to you and all the wonderful women in your family as you honor and reflect your mother with all of your varied talents and personalities.
I read you post first thing this morning. My mother has been gone for 7 years and like all the comments previous, I miss her every day. Just as one of the ladies stated, there have been days that I get up to go to the phone to call her about something and realize that I can’t. My mother left her sewing machine for me, along with all of her sewing room, and even though I bought a new one, I still sew on my mother’s machine because it feels like she is with me. I still have my father and cherish the time I have with him. I enjoyed reading your post. My best to you today.
I read you post first thing this morning. My mother has been gone for 7 years and like all the comments previous, I miss her every day. Just as one of the ladies stated, there have been days that I get up to go to the phone to call her about something and realize that I can’t. My mother left her sewing machine for me, along with all of her sewing room, and even though I bought a new one, I still sew on my mother’s machine because it feels like she is with me. I still have my father and cherish the time I have with him. I enjoyed reading your post. My best to you today.
What a wonderful tribute to your mom, Nicole. It brought lovely memories of my mom back to me. She, too, loved to make lamps. The one I remember most was made from two large tomato juice cans that were available back in the 50s, stacked on top of each other. I think she even made the shade. She also made hats, and most of her own clothes. She could repurpose almost anything.
What a wonderful tribute to your mom, Nicole. It brought lovely memories of my mom back to me. She, too, loved to make lamps. The one I remember most was made from two large tomato juice cans that were available back in the 50s, stacked on top of each other. I think she even made the shade. She also made hats, and most of her own clothes. She could repurpose almost anything.
How fortunate for you and your sisters to have had such a warm, loving, nurturing and kind mother to pattern yourselves after. You’ll be able to pass all these qualities on to Baby E!
How fortunate for you and your sisters to have had such a warm, loving, nurturing and kind mother to pattern yourselves after. You’ll be able to pass all these qualities on to Baby E!
Such a touching digression, Nicole! No wonder you miss her so much! Perhaps she liked making lamps so much that she knew when she was gone from the earth, all you and your sisters had to do was turn on one of her lamps to light up her memory!
Cheers!
Such a touching digression, Nicole! No wonder you miss her so much! Perhaps she liked making lamps so much that she knew when she was gone from the earth, all you and your sisters had to do was turn on one of her lamps to light up her memory!
Cheers!
Beautiful…your mum and the lamp…beautiful.
Beautiful…your mum and the lamp…beautiful.
I miss her so much too Nicki, what a beautiful post. It made me cry. What a great mom, I think about her every day.
I miss her so much too Nicki, what a beautiful post. It made me cry. What a great mom, I think about her every day.
My Mom has been gone 8 years, too & like you I don’t know how we’ve gone on without her. I do miss her terribly, but look forward to the day we will be together again. She was always up for a good time & truly is missed & not just remembered.
My Mom has been gone 8 years, too & like you I don’t know how we’ve gone on without her. I do miss her terribly, but look forward to the day we will be together again. She was always up for a good time & truly is missed & not just remembered.
My mom has been gone 21 years but I saw her yesterday. As I was walking down the path to the back door of my new house she was looking out the door, ready to welcome me. As it turned out I was seeing my own reflection, never realizing I look exactly as I remember her. How I miss her, as you miss yours. They were so special.
My mom has been gone 21 years but I saw her yesterday. As I was walking down the path to the back door of my new house she was looking out the door, ready to welcome me. As it turned out I was seeing my own reflection, never realizing I look exactly as I remember her. How I miss her, as you miss yours. They were so special.
Very nice post and it doesn’t matter that it digressed away from lamps. My mom will be gone 5 years in June, hard to believe and I wish she could have lived longer, well past her 69 years. She missed the marriage of my daughter and the birth of my granddaughter, which she would have loved with all her heart. Keep her close in your heart.
Very nice post and it doesn’t matter that it digressed away from lamps. My mom will be gone 5 years in June, hard to believe and I wish she could have lived longer, well past her 69 years. She missed the marriage of my daughter and the birth of my granddaughter, which she would have loved with all her heart. Keep her close in your heart.
That was beautiful. I miss my mom, too, in the day to day things and in the big life celebrations and everything in between. I loved your sweet words you shared!
That was beautiful. I miss my mom, too, in the day to day things and in the big life celebrations and everything in between. I loved your sweet words you shared!
The lamps are lovely. I used to dream my daddy had not died and was living alone in a house that he and Mama used to live in. I would be so mad when I found out. He’s been gone since 77. Mama died in ’05, and I don’t think she has visited in my dreams at all. And neither does Daddy any more.
The lamps are lovely. I used to dream my daddy had not died and was living alone in a house that he and Mama used to live in. I would be so mad when I found out. He’s been gone since 77. Mama died in ’05, and I don’t think she has visited in my dreams at all. And neither does Daddy any more.
What a lovely post you wrote today. It sounds like your Mom was a wonderful person. I love her lamps – especially the teapot (or is it a coffee pot)! I miss my Mom so often too, especially her good advice.
What a lovely post you wrote today. It sounds like your Mom was a wonderful person. I love her lamps – especially the teapot (or is it a coffee pot)! I miss my Mom so often too, especially her good advice.
She stops by my dreams, too. It’s always nice for the brief moment =) Sometimes it will be a dream about an event that happened after she passed away – one of the weddings, most often. Sometimes I ask her why she is there, since I know she can’t be, and other times I notice that she shouldn’t be there, but I don’t ask her why – I just enjoy it!
She stops by my dreams, too. It’s always nice for the brief moment =) Sometimes it will be a dream about an event that happened after she passed away – one of the weddings, most often. Sometimes I ask her why she is there, since I know she can’t be, and other times I notice that she shouldn’t be there, but I don’t ask her why – I just enjoy it!
I love your digressions! Thanks for sharing such wonderful memories and stories…especially the dreams…their sprits are always with us 🙂
I love your digressions! Thanks for sharing such wonderful memories and stories…especially the dreams…their sprits are always with us 🙂
Beautiful words and a wonderful tribute. Everyday I “talk” to my mom and wonder how she was able to do all the things she did.
Like your mom she could turn other’s trash to treasure.
Beautiful words and a wonderful tribute. Everyday I “talk” to my mom and wonder how she was able to do all the things she did.
Like your mom she could turn other’s trash to treasure.
What wonderful memories she has left you and your sisters, and so much love. So sorry she has been gone so long already.
I dread the day when I shall have to say goodbye to my own mother–which I hope is many many years from now.
What wonderful memories she has left you and your sisters, and so much love. So sorry she has been gone so long already.
I dread the day when I shall have to say goodbye to my own mother–which I hope is many many years from now.
What a wonderful post. A wise older lady of 90 said one time that we never stop missing our mothers because they are always with us. At the time I did not fully comprehend what she meant. Now I do.
It looks like you inherited your creative flair from your mother. What a gift.
What a wonderful post. A wise older lady of 90 said one time that we never stop missing our mothers because they are always with us. At the time I did not fully comprehend what she meant. Now I do.
It looks like you inherited your creative flair from your mother. What a gift.
“Mom was unique in so many ways–a true character. Full of life, very creative, generous to a fault, often feisty, loyal to her family without reservation. I miss her so much. If Vivian loved you, you had an advocate who would fight ’til her last breath for you.”
Oh Nicole. I hope you don’t mind but I took your lovely words(above) and inserted my Mom’s name there because reading them made me wish I had written them about my own Mom. I lost just last August so the wound is still fresh and raw. I miss her so much.
I wish I had known your Mom, she sounds like she would have been a lady worth knowing. So nice to have you share your memories with us.
“Mom was unique in so many ways–a true character. Full of life, very creative, generous to a fault, often feisty, loyal to her family without reservation. I miss her so much. If Vivian loved you, you had an advocate who would fight ’til her last breath for you.”
Oh Nicole. I hope you don’t mind but I took your lovely words(above) and inserted my Mom’s name there because reading them made me wish I had written them about my own Mom. I lost just last August so the wound is still fresh and raw. I miss her so much.
I wish I had known your Mom, she sounds like she would have been a lady worth knowing. So nice to have you share your memories with us.
Nicole, Thanks for sharing your story. How touching, as my own mother has been gone only 8 weeks and I feel the burden of the world on my shoulders trying to continue on and take care of business without her.. Thank you for your touching tribute.
Nicole, Thanks for sharing your story. How touching, as my own mother has been gone only 8 weeks and I feel the burden of the world on my shoulders trying to continue on and take care of business without her.. Thank you for your touching tribute.
When I see how you bless Grandpa’s life to add happy moments, it makes my heart happy, I am sure God is smiling also.
When I see how you bless Grandpa’s life to add happy moments, it makes my heart happy, I am sure God is smiling also.